TO RESIGN - A Healthy Response
by Anna Atsu
If you think of the verb ‘to resign’, you might picture a job or office, something undesirable and a loss…
Far from being a defeat, resignation is a voluntary action, a conscious decision to respond to circumstances without dwelling on what might have been. It’s a choice to embrace the present rather than lament the absence of certain elements or achievements. Resigning, in essence, is not a loss; it is a healthy response to the ebb and flow of life.
Consider the analogy of personal preferences in relationships. If you are a woman who wishes for fuller breasts but your partner prefers smaller ones, resignation becomes a powerful concept. Rather than fantasising about altering yourself, you accept the contentment of your partner. Resignation in this context means rejecting the unnecessary burden of your preferences. If a change is to be made, it should be a choice that aligns with your authentic self in the right circumstances.
Similarly, for men facing the biological rhythm of morning sex as their natural calling, resignation comes into play when the circumstances change, such as the arrival of children in the bedroom. Morning testosterone levels may peak, but embracing the new reality without regret or pondering is a testament to the art of resignation. It's not an invasion; it's an evolution in circumstances, and adapting to these changes - enjoying the presence of ‘the little joys’ with a positive mindset comes naturally and is a mark of emotional maturity.
Resignation is not about giving up; it's about gracefully moving forward in the face of natural twists and turns. It's a choice to focus on what you have rather than fixating on what you lack. This proactive approach empowers women and men to navigate through their daily thinking processes and dynamic circumstances with a sense of balance.
The concept of resignation is particularly relevant in professional life. Voluntarily leaving a job or position could also be a healthy response to changing circumstances. Instead of feeling defeated, you could consider resignation as a strategic move, allowing you to take control of your narrative and pursue new opportunities.
In essence, resignation is about acknowledging that life is a series of changes, and adapting to these changes is an inherent part of maturing as a human. It's not a sign of weakness but rather a testament to one's ability to respond with grace.
So, the next time you find yourself at a crossroads, consider the power of resignation – a voluntary and healthy response that propels you FORWARD.
