The Hidden Battle
"Part of the happiness of life consists not in fighting battles, but in avoiding them. A masterly retreat is in itself a victory".
Strength, whether manifested in the physical demands of sport or in the emotional and spiritual resilience of the human spirit, is a powerful force that drives individuals to overcome challenges and push beyond their perceived limits. Yet, this strength is a double-edged sword. On one hand, when one feels whole and strong, it is natural to uplift others, to inspire and nurture the greatness within those around them. Such individuals become beacons of support, protection, and respect, recognising the value of mutual empowerment. On the other hand, strength can also be wielded as a weapon to dominate and diminish others in an attempt to mask their own insecurities.
A person who seeks to belittle or control others often harbours deep wounds within themselves. These individuals, driven by unresolved pain and feelings of inadequacy, attempt to assert control over those they perceive as weaker. In their eyes, others are not seen as individuals with intrinsic value, but rather as targets to "fix".
Unfortunately, many people are unaware of their own inner strength and equality with others, making them susceptible to be controlled by other individuals. When we disconnect from our sense of self-worth, we may feel more inclined to submit to the perceived strength of others. However, it is crucial to understand that another person can only control us if we allow it. By relinquishing power over our lives, we create a grave imbalance—one that is not only discordant with universal harmony but also a denial of our true nature.
In reality, we are all equal parts of a unified whole, and the idea of one person dominating another is a fantasy born of spiritual disconnection.
True strength lies in the recognition of our equality and the exercise of our unique individuality without betraying this fundamental balance. Scenarios of dominance and control arise from spiritual dis-ease, a disconnection from our innate truth.
Yet, we are destined to learn and grow, to rediscover and believe in ourselves.
As E. E. Cummings beautifully expressed, "Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit."
In the face of attempts to break your spirit, remember this: no one has the right, the permission, or the power to do so unless you allow it. By staying aware of your truth and inner strength, you can resist such attempts and maintain your integrity. The battle may be hidden, but the strength to prevail lies within you.
